I would like to get opinions from readers as to what is the best way to help family when they are in need of financial assistance? I have been a financial rock for my intermediate family for years and I have realized that I have been more of an enabler than a helper to them. I am being viewed as being selfish and mean now that I have been saying no and choosing to stop depleting my funds trying to aid everyone in their financial crisis. When I am in need of help, I have yet to be able to call or rely on them for the same type of support. As a way to ensure, I am not in that position again I have been politely advising them I am not able to loan or pay their debts anymore as doing so and not being repaid from previous instances caused me financial hardship and I had no one to lean on but God. I would like to know If I am right in my decision to stop bailing my family out or if I am blocking my blessings.