I have been dating this girl on and off for four years. We attend the same church. I’m feeling a little pressured by my family and other church members to pop the question (I already have the ring). She does things here and there to make me question if I am really ready to spend the rest of my life with her. She is a sweet person and I know she doesn’t mean to piss me off with the things she does, but it just happens. How do you know if you shouldn’t go through with what you think may end up being a good thing because of a few bad moments here and there?